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Wildcat Kelly
Does not like being a puppy
Joined: 29 Dec 2001
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Location: North Pole, Alaska
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 Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 12:11 pm Post subject: I'm really bad at this......... |
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Maybe you guys can help me with this........How can you tell when a guy is flirting with you? Most of the time, face to face I just cant tell. Sometimes I can catch it but most of the time it flies right over my head and the only way I find out is by the snickering of my co-worker. "Honey" she says "He was flirting with you, boy your dense, you poor thing".
Yesterday a customer came in offered to buy me a coffee and wanted to kiss my forhead. Now that one I caught! 
Sort of in new territory here, I never thought of myself as someone a guy would flirt with. So how can I tell without asking the guy up front "are you flirting with me?" |
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Dangerine49
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Joined: 28 Dec 2001
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Location: Long Island, NY
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If he's talking to you, he's flirting with you.
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teleman77
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Joined: 02 Feb 2002
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Location: In Nebraska, behind the bar, Listening to all your CRAP!
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| Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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..............or keeps looking at you.
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Herb
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Joined: 09 Feb 2003
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Location: Kansas City, Kansas
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Hmmm, you mean all of this flirting that all of us have been doing with you for the past few years has gone unnoticed?  
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Strat Man dwight
Man with a bone
Joined: 01 Nov 2004
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| Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 5:16 pm Post subject: |
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| All of the above. |
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McGillman
Good With Tentacles - Free Membership
Joined: 14 Feb 2002
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Location: Nevada/Oregon
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Okay, Ang, anytime someone who is a casual or less acquaintence compliments you or says something designed to make you feel good - its flirting. Those of us with more neandortholic ways might mention how great those boobs look while us shy guys might mention nice shoes or an angelic smile. Feel free to flirt back.
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Wildcat Kelly
Does not like being a puppy
Joined: 29 Dec 2001
Posts: 435
Location: North Pole, Alaska
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| Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 11:01 am Post subject: |
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| Herb wrote: | | Hmmm, you mean all of this flirting that all of us have been doing with you for the past few years has gone unnoticed? |
oh, herb.......... I can catch written flirting very well 
It's the face to face stuff I'm no good at. Don't worry, I haven't missed a thing here |
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Wildcat Kelly
Does not like being a puppy
Joined: 29 Dec 2001
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Location: North Pole, Alaska
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| McGillman wrote: | | Okay, Ang, anytime someone who is a casual or less acquaintence compliments you or says something designed to make you feel good - its flirting. Those of us with more neandortholic ways might mention how great those boobs look while us shy guys might mention nice shoes or an angelic smile. Feel free to flirt back. |
No wonder my co-worker laughs at me............. that stuff happens to me a lot.
Mostly complements on my hair, my name or my smile, there is one guy that comes into the store and always gives me huge grin when we make eye contact. I've watched him with the other clerks, no huge grin. That's flirting right?
I think I might be catching on............maybe. |
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Strat Man dwight
Man with a bone
Joined: 01 Nov 2004
Posts: 8708
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| You're the best clerk there is! Most attractive, charming & helpful too. I'm glad you're being noticed. |
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SAguitar
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Joined: 30 Oct 2002
Posts: 33262
Location: 'Caster County, Oregon, USA, Earth, Sol
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If you're curious whether he is or not, just ask him. That's totally cool with guys, we like the honest, direct approach. That way you'll quickly clear up any confusion.
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ScottyLesPaul
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Joined: 01 Mar 2004
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Location: UC Santa Cruz
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If he tries to make you laugh.
At least, thats what i do. And its yielded... well.. maybe its just me 
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